Lexi has been asking to get her haircut for months and yesterday we finally decided to let her do it - though not too short. Lexi's passion is dance and I needed enough hair to put it up in a bun twice a week for class.I have to admit I was a little sad. I just love my girls long hair but, Lexi decided to do Locks of Love and I could not say no to that. Lexi and Ava Mae are both now sporting haircuts to their shoulders and have two ponytails to donate.
I snapped this picture above with my iPhone yesterday toward the end of a 2 hour outdoor playdate with our friends. It was such a beautiful warm day the thermometer read 60 degrees and after weeks of frigid cold here in the ATL where temps did not reach over 40 it was magnificent.Now, what this picture does not show is the fact that we actually spent 2 hours outside because, we were locked out of our friend's home. I was babysitting for a friend while she had an appointment and I figured it was such a beautiful day that we would all go for a walk prior to me putting the baby down for nap. Unfortunately, the front door was locked by mistake and so with no way into the house after our walk we spent a few hours just soaking in the sun - finding "joy in the everyday".
Our cat Smokin is so sweet and quite tolerant of the games the girls play with him. Last night, he took the place of Ava Mae's American Girl Bitty Baby, in the Bitty Baby Crib. Today, he has been spotted in a pink skirt and yellow sweater. I am sure the cat is looking forward to the weather warming up and the girls playing outside more.
Last night was our homeschool group meeting. It is always so refreshing after the holidays to go and listen to a fabulous speaker and last night was no exception. Our speaker talked about "expectations" and "pride" and how it effects us as homeschoolers and what the scripture says. This talk seemed to be exactly what I needed to hear and I walked away with a new perspective on things. One quote I wrote down, which really hit home from last night was, "It is a marathon not a sprint and you will never check off all the boxes." Being firstborn, I can tend to be a little bit of a perfectionist. I have high expectations for our homeschooling and can be quite prideful. I love having a perfectly organized teacher's lesson plan book with perfectly written out lessons and activities for the week. If I do not feel like we will get through everything by the end of the week I begin to get quite frustrated and I know my kids bare the brunt of the frustration. I definitely have areas in my life and homeschooling where I feel I know best. Last night I was reminded that pride and high expectations are like waving a fist of rebellion in the face of the ruler of the universe. I need to remember to take everything to Jesus in prayer not just the few choice areas I have decided to turn over to Him.This week has been a great week to regroup and refocus. I am making changes where changes need to be made and after last night will spend more time in prayer over what the rest of our year will look like. I do not like to have "New Year's Resolutions" because I feel for the most part it is silly. Instead, I like to work on one area of my life. This year I have decided that will be finding joy in the everyday. That will begin with me finding joy in my kids just being kids. I am going to let go of some of those "high expectations" that I have and let them just enjoy having fun. I am going to remember why it is we homeschool - not just to check off boxes."For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," decalares the Lord. Isaiah 55:8